So after an epic failure to make my flight to Milan and visit a friend, this week I bring up the topics of planning and school abroad.
It was the date of 12/11/10 and coincidently, everything worked out backwards just like the date. Everything occurred in reverse sequence that day and it was depressing. I could of been on my way to Italy for the first time and to visit a friend where we mutually anticipated seeing each other. Instead, I was sitting on the Terravision coach back to Victoria Station in London (luckily I was able to use my round-trip ticket for Sunday that same night).

The South Bank of London at night from Tower Bridge! Photo by me.
This all happened through poor planning and my lack of knowledge. Being poor is another factor because I could of easily waited for the next flight the morning after but for £100! Ahem…that’s all I had to my name at the time.
Why didn’t I think to leave earlier on a Friday afternoon? Why did I completely forget it was going to be Friday evening traffic getting out of London on my way to Stansted? Why did I complete rely on public transit in such a situation? Out of human nature routine, that’s why.
Just two weeks before I had taken the same exact coach company and it got me their way before I was told by several people. So from that prior experience, I thought the same again for this…without regarding the time difference. FAIL! Moreover, who knew that I would also be lost in translation by standing at the wrong bus stop because the degree symbol for us is used as a number symbol here as well…
Before I continue to emotionally dive into this story yet again, I will continue on with the things I got from this hard hitting learning experience. First and foremost, after missing my first flight ever, I have never felt like I lost so much money so easily. For me, money means a lot…especially at times like these. I continue to emphasize my money issues because I believe it is the number one factor in studying abroad. I want to make it clear that I came into this experience just 11 weeks ago with a mere £1100 pounds. This was all I had after saving up this summer and whatever I had left over from my Gilman Scholarship after purchasing my flights and Visa. This was all I had for school materials, cultural experiences, monthly credit card payments, gifts, outings, and the list goes on. It doesn’t get realer than this.

£10 vs. €35...money out of my pocket. Photo by me.
What I am trying to get at is that, regardless of the infinite amounts of planning you can possibly do for something, things are still completely out of your hands. It is unpredictable the occurrences that are bound to sporadically present themselves in front of you. This is when you turn to faith, believing in something you can’t see. That’s what I’m running on…
Nonetheless, it is another lesson learned and one I get to share with you all.
As my time in London comes close to an end, just three weeks left, it is hard to realize that time has literally slipped us by. With that said, it is not only the end of our trip that is approaching, but the end of our ACADEMIC SEMESTER as well! Whoops! School? Say what?

Royal Albert Hall from Kensington Gardens. Photo by me.
It is so easy to forget why you are studying abroad in the first place. As a student, you get caught up so much with the new environment around you that schoolwork is the last thing you remember. I am a victim of it, and it is another inevitable aspect of studying abroad. If there are any valuable experiences and skills you get out of it all, they include time management, planning, organization, budgeting, and of course procrastination.
Regardless of forgetting, you realize that the reason why you were able to participate in an study abroad opportunity is because you are…STUDYING, by being a student. At the end of the day, what you learn while being in a new place, amidst a new culture, through new frames of mind, and a bunch of fellow classmates doing the same exact thing is priceless. Sometimes learning while being out of your comfort zone helps the overall experience and learning process itself. For example, one of my courses titled Understanding Britain Today is a course that deals with the many aspects of the global, metropolis of London through different disciplines. Politics, Economics, Sociology, Communications, and History are some of the predominate disciplines which truly make this course interdisciplinary. The best part of it all is that the class integrates field studies of what we deal with in class lecture, and there is nothing better than learning from authentic experience! It is one of the best aspects of studying abroad, especially if there is a particular culture or place you are interested in learning more about at first hand.

A double rainbow behind the London Eye. Photo by me.
Within the next few weeks, I will be working, writing, reflecting, and presenting A LOT! With all this on my plate and before I know it, I will be in Gatwick airport waiting to fly home. But while I am still HERE, in London, I will continue to make the most of my remaining time.
P.S. On the bright side, the WORLD PREMIERE of Harry Potter and The Deathly Hallows Part 1 was fantastic!

I was literally in front of the red carpet!
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